inky
hi im inky i love gay shit and i mostly just yell on twitter now.
i wrote a lotta homestuck songs in 2012 and thats my cross to bear

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sorry to respond when i don't share your problem, but maybe if you just tell her how you feel (that you're bad at giving compliments, that you have nice things to say but they're really hard to actually say), and reassure her that you do think she's great, i'm sure she'll understand? it might also help to read about attachment theory and the different attachment patterns (maybe insecure-avoidant for you if it's hard to express intimacy?) but that's more general and not specific to compliments.
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thank you <3 ive tried to explain my situation to her but i feel like since she doesnt relate to it she doesnt really understand. i feel like id be much more able to compliment her if we were like, exclusively dating?? i dont like to get too close to people too quickly. not because i dont trust them but just because im not a super emotional person straight off the bat

i feel like i show my affection and care for her in different ways, like i know all her favourites of everything and i keep track of her stories and reference the things she tells me in conversation a lot… i pay very close attention to her and love learning everything about her but now its become this big issue with the compliments and i just feel really bummed out about it